How long I have left with Brennen: 3 Days
The last weekend in California has finally arrived! Now it's time to test this relationship, and officially become an LDR. Last night we had the "So, how much to do trust me?" and "What is appropriate?" conversation. Good thing for both of us we're comfortable with the other hanging out with the opposite sex, and we both trust each other not to take any of those relationships too far.
Also, I feel like me moving away might actually help Brennen as well.
You see, he has a very strictly religious father who makes him do construction work all day (and today with no lunch break!) and sends bible groups after him hoping to break us up because A) We had Sex B) I'm not exactly his religion (Something along the lines of "thou shall not yolk yourself to a non-believer") and C) LDRs are unnatural.
Ouch. And I thought my Dad was crazy!
Now, I have nothing against overly religious people, the only thing that throws me off about his Dad is that he obviously thinks Brennen made a "sinful" choice with me.
But! getting back to how this will help him... he says he's planning to move out the day after I leave, so 4 days from now. He'll be moving into his Uncle's house, which is closer to his college, and a load cheaper than staying in a dorm. Away from his Father, no longer having to work all day for nothing? It sounds like a brilliant idea to the both of us.
I wish he had moved out sooner, though, because his Dad refuses to let him take a day off this week. So he wakes up at 6sm, works the entire day, than tries to go on dates with me until 12, only to repeat the process the next day. It really began wearing him out, and today he (very last minute) cancelled his date with me. *sigh* I hate being at odds with his father, I want us to be friends. Too much to ask? Haha
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